The phrase "coming to have" refers to the process of acquiring, obtaining, or achieving something. Its antonyms include losing, giving up, and forfeiting. Losing means to part with or be deprived of something that was previously held. Giving up means to abandon or surrender something willingly or unwillingly. Forfeiting means to lose something or be deprived of something as a penalty or punishment. Other antonyms for "coming to have" include rejecting, relinquishing, and renouncing. Rejecting means to refuse or decline something. Relinquishing means to surrender or let go of something. Renouncing means to give up or disown something, often for moral or religious reasons.